Anonymous: ok so my boyfriend wants me to give him a bj and I want too, kind of but like the thing is that he has a small dick. & like this will also be my first bj that I give and like idunno how I would do it with him. like any help? from you or from anybody haha sorry if its like strange but I really don't know what to do! especially if his dick is small cause other people have given me tips but like they dont know his size and i didn't want to tell them. soo help? thanks!
Okay first of all, do it because you want to and not because he’s asking you to or whatever. I’m not saying that’s how it is but that’s kind of how it came off in the question. Second, you pretty much just do it like you would if he was average size except use less hand and more of your tongue. Do a lot of licking, sucking and stroking. Take things slow since it’s your first time, it’s not really all that hard to do but just think about what you’re doing because it could easily get sloppy really fast. Lastly, either before or after (depending on what you’re comfortable with) ask him what he likes and remember it for next time :) Good luck <3
Anonymous: okay so today i asked out this girl that i have liked for a long time. I know for a fact that she likes me cause she has told me and we have had sex and everything too..lol. But anyways when i asked her today she blushed and said she wasnt good with boyfriends and blah blah. her final words were "let me think about it" i didnt tell her but it really hurt and now i dont know what to do
Wow, that’s weird because I went through the exact same thing and the guy said the same that he’s “not good with girlfriends”. Honestly, just give her time and don’t put any pressure on her. Maybe the reason she’s not good with boyfriends is because something happened to her in the past and you want to give her enough time to think it through without making a rational decision. Relationships do scare some people but if she really cares she will give you a try. Just think about her feelings, maybe ask her what would make a relationship with you more comfortable. Just don’t be too hurt by her decision, she’s making it for a reason and if she decides not to date you it might be for the better. I hope everything turns out well, good luck xoxo.
Anonymous: I need advice, I really wanna smoke pot and get high, not to seem cool or to be a pot head, but because I have wanted to for a while and I want to try it, my brother offered me some, but I'm too scared all of a sudden, I really want too but idk..
Heey, as long as you’re not going it for the wrong reasons like peer pressure or something like that then it’s not wrong. Pot isn’t as bad as people make it out to be. As long as you’re somewhere private and you’re comfortable doing it then it’s not going to harm anyone. It’s not addictive and if it’s your choice then go for it :)
Anonymous: I've never loved someone so much.. I miss him, and I wish we were still together. Those 8 months were the best months of my life, I'd do anything to have him back. He deleted my off fb, unfollowed me on tumblr, and deleted my number. I hate myself for being so upset over this. Have you ever felt this much pain?
Yeah I know exactly how you feel. Everything you see reminds you of that person and no matter what you feel like you’ll never get over them. I’ve had that. Just don’t think about them and do something to get your mind off that person. That’s all I can say, sorry :/
Anonymous: How do I get a guy to know I like him?
Give him subtle hints. You don’t want to seem desperate. Try talking with him a lot, give him compliments, tell him he makes you smile. Just little things. You don’t want to come out right away and say I LIKE YOU. Avoid being awkward c:
Anonymous: okso there's this guy at my school and i think i might have feelings for him but all he ever wants to do is hook up and i keep letting him and i feel really blegh. idk what to do. i keep telling myself i'm not going to let him any more but every time he asks to hang out i say okay.
o.m.g I can literally relate to everything you guys are sending me :| But trust me, if you’re not interesting in hooking up and that’s all the other person wants to do it’s not going to benefit you in the long run. If you guys don’t want the same thing then it’s not going to work. If you have feelings and he just wants to hook up you’re honestly going to get played, I’m sorry but I went through the exact same thing and that’s what ended up happening. Don’t let it happen to you, Please it hurts :/
Anonymous: first off i just wanted to tell you that your picture is gorgeous. second of all theres this guy i really like that not only is like a player but i used to text all the time and hang out with on the weekends and all of a sudden he stopped talking to me, but like after school he always asks if im riding the train home and tells me he wants to sit next to me but he ditches me for some girl who bullied me 24/7. and now all he ever talks to me about is how much he wants a bj from me. wat to do :(
Aww thanks so much bby <3 Oh wow, lol. I can relate to soo much of that, darling. So listen, if someone just dumps you like that and replaces you out of nowhere they don’t even deserve your time. There are so many nicer guys out there who aren’t just looking for blowjobs.
Anonymous: I recently started talking to my ex boyfriend, I like him still., but I don't know if i should be with him again since he cheated on me before. any help?
Uhm honestly, a relationship is meant for two people and two people only. If your partner goes and does that to you then I don’t think it’s worth risking getting hurt again. You would feel pretty stupid if it happened again wouldn’t you? All I’m trying to say is that there are many other good guys in the world who WOULDN’T cheat on you. Don’t go for the assholes, there are good guys everywhere you just might not notice. Hope that helps..
Anonymous: Okay, I'm 15, in love with my boyfriend and we think we're ready to take the next step in our relationship, as in having sex. But we were kindaaa thinking about waiting cause we want something to look forward to when we get older, but we've beeen together for so long and so in love and dont wanna wait anymore. I just really need advice, what do you think we should dooo?
Awww :) trust me, if you wait till marriage or years down the road to have sex it will kind of be a disappointment. Well at least in my opinion. There are WAY more things to look forward to in a relationship other than sex. If you both feel ready then I say go for it. Just don’t make your relationship revolve around sex after :)
Anonymous: Okay so my boyfriend told me that he still likes his ex and idk what to do .help
Let him be with her. Just say “your loss bro”. there’s a little saying
“Don’t leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love..”
What I mean by this is, karma is a bitch & he’ll know exactly how you feel someday. don’t let this asshole hurt you bby.
Anonymous: Any suggestions on how to get over my ex boyfriend? We broke up last tuesday and I've been a mess every since. My friends are really worried and I just wanna do something to get over him and give my friends a break. They have ran into the bathroom plenty of times because i ran out of class crying at the sound of his name. I feel sooo bad. Is there any suggestions you could give me to get over him?
I’ve been in your situation before. I think what you need to do is just spend some time by yourself and think things over. Even though that might be the thing that hurts the most, it will be good for you in the end. Most people use distractions to get over break ups but at the end of the day you’re still sad about it. If you’re at peace with yourself then it’s so much easier to move on rather than pretending you’re ok.
Anonymous: 2 people have told me that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I really dont know what to do.. There both my best friends and I trust them so much, but I'm confused. One of my friend says she catches him skipping almost everyday with this girl but they stop talking when she passes by. She also says everyone tells him that this girl is waiting for him all the time. The second girl said a friend of her's knows my boyfriends secret and wont tell. What should I do? :(
Honestly, cheating is a really serious matter. :/ I know how you feel, trust me. All you have to do is approach your boyfriend calmly and explain to him what you have heard and hopefully he will tell you the truth. All you can do is trust him, if he tells you he’s not cheating and stays loyal then just drop it because it will destroy your relationship. If he acts weird and you don’t like what you hear then I suggest thinking really hard about your options..
Anonymous: Ok so there is this guy and hes my ex boyfriend. We went out for a couple months and i ended things. Were kind of family friends, like our moms our friends. I went to his house on new years (after we broke up) and we hooked up. I think im starting to like him again. I dont wanna be rejected so I dont know what to do? ;/ all my friends are telling me not to go out with him ever again. what should i do? ;/
Well if you guys hooked up there is obviously something between you guys. I don’t think you should make a decision quite yet. Just see how things go being by yourself and in the end just do whatever makes you happy. If you regret breaking up with him then maybe you should give it a second try. :)
Anonymous: i was at a party in the summer and had a lot of drinks and did some stupid stuff, yesterday one of my friends messaged me and told me that there is this girl that wants to talk to me. I talked to her and she told me that she is pregnant and that she is sure that I am the father cause we had sex at that party. what do I do now ?
wooooooow, if this is legit you sure got yourself into a situation there bro. first I would find out if you’re actually the father because she might of had sex with multiple people but just be pinning it on you, so DNA test that shit. and if you are the father then man up and be a good daddy.
Anonymous: heey <3 so i need some advice. i hooked up with this guy, and i thought it was good but he never texted me afterwards and its been a week! what do you think this means? should i text him first?
heey. It’s not uncommon for a guy to act like that after they hook up with someone. I say yes, text him and see what kind of terms you guys are on. It’s really no big deal to text a guy first.
